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Breakup Advice For Guys 10 Tips For Dumping Her And Remaining A Gentleman

Are you planning to dump your girlfriend? How do you end the relationship and still look like a gentleman?

Here is some breakup advice for guys.

  • Tip 1– Prepare her ahead of time. Drop hints you aren’t satisfied with your relationship. Have “relationship talks” or ask leading questions from time to time. Stop spending as much time with her. And tone down the spending. If you buy her an expensive piece of jewelry and then dump her, she won’t know what to think.

  • Tip 2 – Make sure she’s the first to know you’re calling it quits. If she finds out from your friends (or worse, hers) that you’re moving on, she’ll hate you forever. Be honest with her and tell her you to love her, but you are no longer in love with her.

  • Tip 3 – Find a neutral place to break up. She shouldn’t have to live with the breakup every day at her house. And, when you break up at your place, you are shifting the power dynamic in your favor. So, when at all possible, break the news some place neutral.

  • Tip 4 – My next piece of breakup advice is to be a man and end it in person. Remember, Britney Spears once called a relationship off by text message. Don’t be a Brittney! You owe it to her to tell her you don’t want to see her any longer. Be there for her one last time.

  • Tip 5 – Don’t complicate things. Tell her directly that you don’t want to see her. It would be best if you were prepared to tell her why, because she will ask. But, don’t feel you have to relive the entire relationship through the breakup process.

  • Tip 6 – Let her into your world. If you can make her see your perspective on things, she is likely to cope with the breakup afterward better.

  • Tip 7 – My next piece of breakup advice is if you want to leave, leave. She will probably ask you to reconsider. She may do this when you break up, or she may do it through texts, calls, and in-person meetings afterward. (Or, she may do both.) Remember that things will not change if you get back together. There’s a reason you want to break up. So, stick with it.

  • Tip 8 – Time it right. Okay, there’s never going to be a perfect time to dump someone. But some times are worse than others. If you dump her before a major holiday (Christmas, Valentine’s, Birthday, Anniversary), you are going to look like you didn’t want to buy a gift. Also, be sensitive to other stressors in her life. Don’t dump her the week before final exams or right after her granddad has gone into the hospital for triple bypass surgery. Suck it up and stay with her for another couple of weeks.

  • Tip 9 – She’s going to cry. Girls are tear machines. So, have some tissues ready when you break the news. Be prepared for her to cry, and don’t get too emotional about it yourself.

Remember, it is going to be tough on her when you call it quits. That is why you should follow the breakup advice in this article.

Breakup Advice For Guys 10 Tips For Dumping Her And Remaining A Gentleman

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