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Have you ever been in a situation where you’ve wanted to leave and you’ve realised that you just can’t?

Maybe your partner has started to annoy you two are unhappy. Maybe you’ve just met someone who you think will be perfect for you but you know it’s not going to work out.

Whatever it is, you know that letting someone go because you love them really isn’t an option. You need to find other ways of dealing with the situation.

You can’t let letting someone go because you love them get to you. You can’t blame them for being unhappy.

The problem with most people though is that they act as if they don’t care. That’s why these relationships end. There are ways though that you can still love them and still get them to leave you.

Firstly, you need to start to think outside the box.

Most people in these sorts of situations end up blaming their partner for not doing what they said they would do and then they’re stuck making excuses and blaming each other for problems that don’t exist.

It’s like working in an office but you keep doing stupid things that other people would do.

If you let yourself believe that your partner doesn’t love you anymore you’re going to continue to feel unloved.

If you continue to blame them you’re going to continue to feel angry and frustrated. If you want to make any sort of improvement at all it starts internally. You need to believe that you’re worth something now.

You also need to realise that you shouldn’t always expect them to do what you want. It’s OK to say no sometimes.

Saying no to someone is a sign of respect. Saying no to someone also shows them that you have control over yourself and over your life.

If you can’t handle your own life and you feel like you’re letting someone go because you love them then you probably are.

Don’t fall into the trap of just wishing everything was different and that everything was good. If you do that you will never be happy no matter what you do.

You need to make a plan and keep to it. Once you start to follow a plan you will start to see positive changes in your life and you will feel better about yourself.

Don’t feel upset or depressed if you let someone go. That just means that you’re human and that’s something that we all have to deal with in one way or another.

Instead of feeling sorry for yourself or blaming the person for leaving, find ways to make them feel special to you again.

Remember that even if they were unlovable before, they are now, in your eyes, worth something. You have to take time out to show them how special they are to you and how much you love them.

If you can do this, they will be much more likely to come back to you. If not, at least you know you’ve done the best you could.

It can be hard to talk to your children about this. They may even be angry with you. You have to talk to them in a manner that is loving without being critical.

Explain why you did it, even if you really didn’t mean it in a bad way. You want to make sure they understand it’s not just you vs. them so don’t be critical of them.

One good thing to remember when you are letting someone go because you love them is that they will probably be much more open to letting you back in.

Part of the reason that they left in the first place was that they didn’t feel loved. By showing them that you love them and you believe they are important, they are going to open up to you again.

Letting someone go can also help you bond with your ex. If you were hurt by them, it is probably very painful for you.

Even if you can’t really understand what they did, being around them while they are gone will help you heal.

The worst part of letting someone go is that you aren’t there with them. That is the hardest part because you miss being there with them.

But once they are gone, you can still have those memories. So even though you feel like you don’t love them anymore, at least you can say you had a great time with them.

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