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One of the most common questions I’m asked by people “I love my partner and sometimes I’m not sure I can live with it”.

I don’t have all the answers but sometimes it is better to take the time to really evaluate what it is that you’re feeling.

Sometimes there are underlying issues causing the unhappiness. These are the ones that when addressed will make everything better.

At times your partner may be pushing you away or pushing you too hard. These are two very common reasons why some relationships fail.

So what can you do in these situations? First of all, understand that you are not the only one experiencing this. The universe is not in any way out to get you.

You are only trying to find ways and means to deal with the pain and frustration sometimes. This is the only way for you to move on.

If the pain is unbearable you may need to make a decision about whether or not you can live with this relationship and the pain it’s causing.

It’s common to react emotionally when you have a strong negative opinion about someone. It often causes you to have feelings of desperation and helplessness.

But remember that if you let yourself fall into this trap you will only cause yourself more problems in the future. You have to learn to think rationally.

Thinking rationally means that you must have a clear and concise idea of what you want. I find it useful to picture a scenario where you are working your way through an issue with your partner and you keep bringing up their previous complaints.

Your partner doesn’t seem to mind or they just brush off your comments. If you are like me then this can go on for some time.

At some point I would have to admit that my reaction was hasty and I made mistakes that I could have avoided.

So, sometimes loving someone means letting go of the past. When you make decisions based on these previous reactions you set yourself up for disappointment.

You also set yourself up for resentment and anger. On the other hand, when you base decisions on what you truly believe about a person you are more likely to act in the best interests of that person.

I am a very fortunate person. I am able to let go of the past and focus on what I truly want now. This allows me to pursue happiness and success.

It also allows me to feel good about loving someone and being loved in return. When you let go of the things that are holding you back in life you will be much happier.

Loving someone unconditionally is something that you can do. You can begin to live this lifestyle by making the decision to give someone unconditional love.

When you give someone this type of love you can truly transform their lives. You can teach them to become a better person and help them grow as a person.

This in turn will allow you to experience growing pains that will eventually pass.

You can find out if you are one of those people that sometimes love someone but not enough to let go. Spend some time asking questions of those that you are close to.

Listen to the answers that are given and think about what they mean for you.

Once you find out if you are capable of giving love to someone but not enough to let go of past hurts you will be able to move forward. You will then have developed a much better relationship with your ex.

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